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Why a Gap in Your Work Life and Resume Is a Future Skill. Why it’s powerful – and why you shouldn’t fear it

In all my workshops, one question consistently comes up during the Q&A:
“What should I do about the gap in my resume?”

It doesn’t matter if the person is currently unemployed, has recently transitioned from academia, or is considering a career change later in life; the fear of having a visible gap in one’s work history creates real anxiety. People often ask how to cover the gap best strategically, or even how to hide or erase it completely.

This question often surfaces around maternity leave, caregiving responsibilities, or time off for mental or physical health, especially for women, though increasingly for men too. Of course, different cultures and countries view career breaks differently. But across the board, the anxiety about gaps stems from an outdated mindset.

Here’s what I tell my clients: It’s not about whether you have a gap—it’s about what you did with it.

✨ As someone who’s reviewed thousands of resumes—first as a recruiter, now as a coach—I’ll admit: when a resume looks too perfect, I get suspicious. Especially now, when tools like ChatGPT are helping candidates polish every line. 

✨ I sometimes ask:
“Why don’t you have a gap in your resume?”

The reaction is usually surprise. It’s not the question they expected and definitely not the one they had prepared for. So now I’m asking you:

How would you respond to that question?

Take a moment. It’s an excellent way to check your own narrative and how it might shift if someone looked at your career from another angle.

Where Does the Fear of the Gap Come From?

Instead of rushing to fix the gap, we need to ask a more important question:
Could it be that you’ve been trained to fear it?

Here are some reasons I often hear from clients:

⚡ You’ve been told by managers, trainers, or recruiters that a gap is bad for your brand

⚡ You’re afraid of what others might think

⚡ You feel pressure to present a perfect life and career

⚡ You fear unemployment and instability

⚡ You’ve never had the opportunity or the courage to take a break

⚡ You live in a culture where taking time off is not acceptable

You may have other reasons, too. But from my coaching and recruiting experience, one reason stands out:

“Most of the clients I work with aren’t afraid of the gap itself; they’re afraid of what others might think about it.”

They worry about being judged by hiring managers, recruiters, or even former colleagues. There’s often a quiet, unspoken fear of being seen as uncommitted, lazy, or having fallen behind.

But here’s the truth: Choosing to take a break, to reflect, and to make intentional decisions isn’t weakness, it’s leadership. It’s integrity.

When you invest time, money, and energy into yourself, you're building a future skill set that includes not only technical abilities, but you are also building the mindset of the future of work demands.

We’re living through rapid transformation. As I often say
“In the next 10 years, we will see more change than in the last 100. Clinging too long to the wrong path may leave you behind not just in skills, but in mindset.”

So if you say, “Yes, I have a gap because I decided to take a step back. I felt I was on the wrong path, and I chose to take responsibility for my life and career.”

That’s not a red flag. That's self-leadership. And that deserves respect, not shame.

Why a Life Without Gaps Can Be a Red Flag

When I see a resume with no space between jobs, I wonder:
Has this person ever taken time to reflect? To recover? To intentionally grow outside of work?

In many of my coaching conversations, I ask clients:

“Are you driving your own car, or is someone else behind the wheel?”

It’s a powerful metaphor for how we navigate our careers.

“For years, I wasn’t driving my own car either. One day I stopped and asked myself, “How did I end up here?”
The answer wasn’t flattering: I had made career choices to please others, not myself. No wonder I burned out”

A flawless CV might look impressive at first glance, but it can also suggest someone who’s never paused to recalibrate or reflect. And that’s a risk.

Life happens and it should. People take parental leave, get sick, step away to care for others, or simply need time to think. All of that belongs in a healthy, sustainable career journey.

What if we stopped seeing gaps as empty spaces and started seeing them as meaningful chapters?

In my coaching practice, I’ve seen many powerful transformations happen in the gap not outside of it. In fact, that’s where the real work begins. As a coach, I love working in the gap, because that’s where the turning points emerge.

And when someone learns to confidently articulate what they gained from that time, it no longer appears as a weakness. It becomes a sign of emotional maturity, self-awareness, and growth.

Reframing the Narrative: From Gap to Growth

Instead of trying to hide your gap, OWN IT!

Ask yourself: What did that time give me? Did I learn something new? Did I make a conscious decision to leave a toxic environment? Did I spend time with my family, recover, or gain clarity about my goals?

When you can tell that story with confidence, the gap transforms into a powerful part of your career narrative. It shows that you're not just reacting to your life, you’re in fact leading it.

We need to stop measuring careers by how uninterrupted the resume looks. A successful career isn’t one without gaps; it's one that shows courage, accountability, and the willingness to take charge of your direction. You made sure you were not only developing the right skills but also preparing your mindset, body & soul for what’s ahead.

So, the next time you feel the urge to apologize for a gap in your resume, press the pause button. That gap may be the very thing that leads you to your next great opportunity.

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